美国人的分手和离婚

其实不是很想说王宝强离婚。
6 j* S1 l, v  M/ V# Z但有不少听众问：美国明星离婚也会变成全民大戏吗？
仔细想想，探讨中美文化差异，也是我们节目的特色。
不过，婚姻感情只有当事人清楚。所以我们今天就把焦点放在相关的英语上吧！
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节目音乐：We're going to be friends by Jack White


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明星离婚不该成为全民大戏

Lots of high-profile celebrities are breaking up recently: 最近不少有名的明星闹分手、闹离婚
: m. c( Q' X- B7 G5 yMillions of Chinese people are following Wang Baoqiang's divorce drama unfold:  中国好多人都在追王宝强的离婚大戏发展
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$ O9 M; J1 [" K7 J- V9 u# o# ^It's unfortunate since so many Olympian athletes are currently pouring out their blood, sweat and tears in Rio: 其实挺悲哀的，运动员在里约奥运拼搏自己的血泪汗水，但媒体都是王宝强的事儿
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分手、离婚，有人撕破脸、有人相对和平

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两败俱伤、鸡飞狗跳：

• nasty breakup: 两败俱伤的分手
• ugly breakup: 闹得很不好看、丑陋的分手
  

维持和平、友好：

• amicable breakup: 和平分手
  

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分手、离婚英语怎么说？

Breakup,  split up: 分手、分开

You can use these 2 words for both married and unmarried couples: 这两个词无论恋爱分手、还是离婚，都可以用
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Divorce: 离婚

When couples are separated, it means they're still legally married but living apart from each other: 结婚的人分居，虽然法律上还是夫妻，但是事实上已经分居
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Some people work it out during this period of separation: 有些人分开的这段时间，可以解决、化解矛盾

They've worked it out/worked things out: 解决、化解矛盾
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If they can't work it out, they'll file for divorce: 如果不行，就提出离婚

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外遇、出轨
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Wang Baoqiang is accusing his wife of cheating on him with his agent: 王宝强控诉太太和经纪人出轨、外遇

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• cheating on someone: 欺骗另一半，指出轨、有外遇
  
• (cheating on a test): 考试作弊
  
• Two-timing：脚踏两条船，但是这个说法比较过时
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• unfaithful: 不忠
  
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someone is caught cheating: 被捉奸
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gossipy: 很八卦
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各执一词，He said/she said

It's a "he said she said"situation/it's all "he said she said" : 男女双方各执一词

" k7 }9 |6 Z5 o4 S6 }$ W8 P8 t- [No one knows what goes on in a marriage and no one will ever know: 婚姻的事，外人怎么搞得清？
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美国人最关心的明星离婚: Johnny Depp

美国近来也有一对明星离婚闹得沸沸扬扬。就是大明星，《加勒比海盗》系列男主Johnny Depp和小自己十几岁的明星嫩妻Amber Heard。女方控诉男方家暴，男方也控诉女方各种不是。

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Johnny Depp and his young wife, Amber Heard, are going through a nasty divorce:  Johnny Depp和嫩妻Amber Heard离婚也闹得很凶
7 k( b" T3 c: u1 J/ ^4 P4 mShe's accusing him of domestic abuse/domestic violence: 女方控诉男方家暴
, M* z3 W' M0 V! m0 BOne meaning of domestic is within the country: 说到航班，domestic有一个意思是国内，例如domestic flights, 国内航班

! `. ^5 B2 ?7 CDomestic can also mean within a marriage or home: domestic还有个意思是家庭内部的
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domestic abuse/domestic violence：家庭暴力
domestic abuser or abuser: 实施家暴那方
It's inexcusable: 这是不可饶恕的
+ ?* q* }# k9 J/ k- `' ywifebeater: 打老婆的男人 （口语）

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不过wifebeater还有一个意思，就是男士背心↓↓
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It comes from the stereotype that this is the kind of clothes that a wifebeater wears: 这来自于一种偏见，打老婆的人会穿这种背心

But it's not a very nice word in everyday use: 这个词不太适合日常形容背心时用

友好分手: On good terms

分手离婚后也有关系处得好的：

• leave on good terms: 分开时，还挺友好，
• break up on good terms: 同上
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• We're still on good terms: 我们现在关系还不错
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mutual decision, mutual breakup: 分手是双方一致的决定
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狗仔队

Gossip magazines: 八卦杂志
paparazzi: 狗仔
TMZ is a huge paparazzi machine in the US: TMZ是美国最有名（或臭名昭著)的八卦机器
  Z: J. O5 {* L' L* N8 M( d5 S+ mLeak info: 爆料
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* ?7 a! ~6 s. {) NA video was leaked to TMZ of Johnny Depp throwing a tantrum in front of his wife at home: 有人向TMZ泄露了德普在家对老婆大发雷霆的视频

摩登家庭: Uncouple, Coparent

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5 y: C+ s+ u! ZGwenyth Paltrow and Chris Martin issued a joint statement that stated, "We consciouslyuncouple, but we coparent": Gwenyth Paltrow和Chris Martin分开时发的联合声明其中说到”我们深思熟虑后选择分开，但还要一起做父母养育孩子”
Many people laughed at their choice of words, but it's a good attitude: 虽然很多人觉得他们的用词太矫情，但是态度却值得称赞


有couple, 还有uncouple

• uncouple, decouple (动词): 分开，不再是一对
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• to parent （动词）: 抚养孩子、尽父母的责任
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parent is both a noun and a verb: parent既是名词也是动词

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是啊，分手、离婚，冷暖自知。孩子始终是第一位的。
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